Tons of people said one thing with their lips and then other things with their bodies. Wren was an expert in that, so perhaps it wouldn't be too much of a learning curve to read the words between the words with Kim. Clearly, the 'terribly busy' part was a lie, that much she knew. And she was aware culturally, most Asian countries would play off hospitality to some extent. Maybe this was something similar to that?

"Well, next time you're super busy and I ask for some undivided attention, you'll need to communicate to me that you're actually busy instead of spoiling me in this fashion." She jostled the bag set between her feet for emphasis. "You'll make me fat with all these desserts and I thought that getting fat was the norm with people who wanted to keep women. Am I wrong with that? The single girls are all skinny and the married moms are fat? Well, less skinny."